Ah, April. The sun is shining, the weather feels warmer, pranksters run wild, and even the most ridiculous rumors sound (almost) believable. But while harmless jokes are part of the fun, there are some myths out there that really need to be retired – especially when it comes to sex, sexuality, and sexual health.
This month, let’s bust some popular sex myths that have fooled us for far too long.
🏳️🌈MYTH #1: You can tell someone’s sexuality just by looking at them.
FACT: Despite what some may say, there’s no “gaydar” or special look that defines someone’s sexuality. Sexuality is complex, fluid, and personal. Assuming otherwise is not just inaccurate, it’s disrespectful.
🛑MYTH #2: Pulling out is a reliable birth control method.
FACT: If you are wanting to prevent pregnancy and/or sexually transmitted infections (STI’s), withdrawal may not be worth the risk. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm, and timing is tricky (especially in the heat of the moment). If pregnancy and/or STI prevention is your goal, using methods like condoms and birth control pills are much more reliable (when used correctly and consistently).
🍆MYTH #3: Bigger is always better.
FACT: Size gets way too much attention. What really matters is communication, connection, and knowing what you and your partner enjoy. Plus, good sex isn’t about one body part – it’s a full-body experience.
👩⚕️MYTH #4: You only need an STI test if you have symptoms.
FACT: The most common STI symptom is no symptom at all. Regular testing is essential if you’re sexually active, regardless of how you feel. The only way to know your status for sure? Get tested. No shame in the game.
💻MYTH #5: Watching porn teaches you everything you need to know about sex.
FACT: Porn is entertainment, not sex education. Real sex looks, feels, and sounds different – because it’s not scripted or edited. Healthy sexual intimacy involves consent, communication, and mutual respect.
🩸MYTH #6: You can’t get pregnant during your period.
FACT: Surprise! While less likely, pregnancy during your period is possible. Sperm can live in the body for up to five days!
🧠MYTH #7: Masturbation is bad for you or your relationship.
FACT: Nope. Masturbation is normal, healthy, and actually comes with mental and physical health benefits. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your relationship, your partner, or yourself – it’s just another way people explore their own bodies. Have fun with it!
Want to learn more about the benefits of masturbation? Check out our previous blog post: https://www.engerotics.com/education/masturbation-in-all-its-glory/
🚻MYTH #8: There are only two genders, and everyone fits neatly into one.
FACT: Gender isn’t binary. It’s a spectrum that includes a variety of identities outside of just “male” and “female.” Respect and acceptance go a long way – especially when people trust you with who they really are. Allow others (and yourself) to be their most authentic self.
🌽MYTH #9: Using two condoms (double-bagging) gives you extra protection.
FACT: While condoms can be very effective at preventing pregnancy and STI’s, only one condom at a time is necessary. Using two condoms at once – whether two external (male) condoms or an external condom with an internal (female) condom – actually increases your risk of breakage due to friction between the two layers. That friction weakens the material and makes both condoms more likely to tear or break – which defeats the purpose.
💡Pro Tip: Always check expiration dates and use water- or silicone-based lube with condoms to reduce friction and risk of breakage. Remember: oil-based products can disintegrate the integrity of the condom.
💊MYTH #10: Birth Control pills are only for preventing pregnancy
FACT: Many people are prescribed birth control pills for various reasons other than preventing pregnancy. Birth control pills can be helpful for painful menstruation, acne, or heavy periods.
🤡 Final Thought: Don’t Get Fooled by Myths
When it comes to sex and sexuality, misinformation spreads fast – and it sticks. But we’re not here for outdated advice or old wives’ tales. This April Fools Month, let’s stop falling for the myths and start focusing on facts, consent, communication, and pleasure.
Because when it comes to sexual health, the truth is always sexier.
